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Farewell, debt

by Melanie

Hey everyone! I’m so happy to introduce you to Jennifer, who’s a new blogger and share her dear debt letter with you all. Say hello! Jennifer Dane is a personal finance blogger at Debt Free Utopia and has a passion for inspiring and educating others through blogging about her journey to overcoming $78,000 worth of debt. Her philosophy is that being debt free will lead to being a fulfilled person and community member.

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Dear Debt,

We are not friends. You came into my life like a slimy, smug boyfriend in my teenage years. I did not know the damage you caused until I couldn’t pursue my passions. My parents never warned me about the dangers of you, and after they had known I was with you, they never even said a word.

You have followed me with every move I have made and have grown more unmanageable every year. We’ve even yo-yo money dieted with no avail, and I think it is the time we part ways. You are constantly on my mind, and I want to be able to live my life without your restrictions.

When you are in my life, I cannot fulfill my dreams. So, I am done. I know it will take me years to move on, and it will be a challenge, but it is over. I want you to be completely out of my life by the end of 2022 (hopefully sooner). Farewell, debt. You are not welcome here anymore.

-J. Dane

 

Melanie
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3 comments

Cheri | Dream Big on a Budget December 1, 2016 - 5:32 pm

I just came across this site and I LOVE these letters, Melanie!

Jennifer, I am right there with you! I recently started my blog about breaking up with debt as well and realized just how stressed I have been about it for so many years. It’s ridiculous that I didn’t do something drastic about it sooner, but I’m on the right track now!

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Fruclassity (Ruth) December 7, 2016 - 3:41 am

Good luck, Jennifer! I broke up with debt too, and you’re right – it does take years. My final freedom from debt will probably be in 2019 (but I started this break up 4.5 years ago). Find ways to enjoy the journey and tick to your intention. 2022 will come sooner than you think : )

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ZJ Thorne January 17, 2017 - 10:31 pm

Good luck to the author! Slimy boyfriend’s effects can take years of effort to undo.

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