Dear Debt, Thank You

by Melanie

Hey debt fighters! I’m so excited to share this dear debt letter as it offers a fresh perspective on debt. AND you must congratulate Kate as she has recently paid off the last of her debt!

Kate from Goodnight Debt graduated from law school with $45,330 in student loan debt. She made her final student loan payment on March 27, 2015, paying them off in only 15 short months. 

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Dear Debt,

Can you believe we’ve known each other for nearly 5 years? I guess stress and life events make time fly by.  It feels like we met just yesterday.

It has been a good ride, but we can’t see each other anymore. I don’t mean to be rude, but it’s time we went our separate ways. Did you really not see this coming?

I can’t say that I’m going to miss you, but I want you to know that I appreciate everything you have done for me. You’ve done a lot.  Sometimes I feel like you don’t get the recognition you deserve.

So, I just want to say…. Thank you.

Thank you for helping me gain my independence to stand on my own two feet.

Thank you for letting me pursue opportunities that were low or no pay but were pivotal in finding my right path.

Thank you for getting me through law school. Without you, I would have needed to divert my attention from what was important to make ends meet.

Thank you for being there after I graduated. Things got really bad for a while and without you, who knows what kind of mess I would have been.  (Likely: An emotionally unstable, unemployable mess.)

Thank you for pushing me into new opportunities when the time was right.

Thank you for helping me grow closer to my Husband.  (Do you remember him? You two hung out a lot like 10 years ago.)

Hopefully, we can see each other again in a few years. I’ll need your help with a few things…. How are you at home improvement projects?

Thank you again,
Kate

Melanie
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16 comments

Prudence Debtfree April 2, 2015 - 3:49 am

Congratulations, Kate! You’ve made it! Your letter challenges my view on debt. I have considered my relationship with debt to be strictly unhealthy. You point out that debt has helped you to get to where you are – which is a very good place. It’s the whole debate about good debt vs. bad debt. Perhaps it’s my stage of life (within a decade of retirement) that makes me see all debt as negative. All the best on the other side of $0 : )

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Kate@GoodnightDebt April 3, 2015 - 7:24 pm

I’m glad I could challenge your view on debt. Just like money isn’t inherently good or bad, I think debt can be good or bad depending on how you use it. Your life stage is also a huge factor. If I’d been closer to retirement, I’m sure I’d be a lot less thankful.

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Nichole @ Budget Loving Military Wife April 2, 2015 - 6:15 am

Congrats on paying off your student loans Kate! 🙂

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Kate@GoodnightDebt April 3, 2015 - 7:25 pm

Thank you Nichole!

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Courtney April 2, 2015 - 7:19 am

It is true that while debt is considered by most to be an awful thing….it can actually help us grow up. It’s good to say goodbye and saying thank you to your debt shows how far you’ve come. So awesome!

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Kate@GoodnightDebt April 3, 2015 - 7:38 pm

I’ve certainly grown up a lot over the last few years. Not sure if that was law school, debt, life or age that caused that. No matter what it was, it feels good to be on the other side of debt!

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Michelle April 2, 2015 - 6:14 pm

Congratulations on paying off your debt!!

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Kate@GoodnightDebt April 3, 2015 - 7:20 pm

Thanks Michelle!

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The Money Spot April 2, 2015 - 6:15 pm

What an inspiring story!

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Kate@GoodnightDebt April 3, 2015 - 7:39 pm

Thanks!

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Stefanie @ The Broke and Beautiful Life April 3, 2015 - 6:17 am

I like this spin. Debt being leveraged to afford more.

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Kate@GoodnightDebt April 3, 2015 - 7:19 pm

Thanks Stephanie!

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Ron April 3, 2015 - 8:22 pm

Congrats Kate on dropping that school debt! You are right, that debt was there for a good reason, and that reason was to help you get through law school. It’s a nice angle on good debt vs. bad debt, like what other commenters said.

That being said, good luck on your future endeavors! I hope to join you one day and write a debt-free break-up letter!

Oh, BTW, I went over to you site and saw your 7 steps on how you paid off your loans. I especially liked #3 and creating a separate bank account for the loans.

Cheers!
Ron

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Kate@GoodnightDebt April 7, 2015 - 4:59 am

Thanks Ron! Perhaps from this, others can see that debt can be a tool and not just a regret.
I hope you’ll join me too!

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Tony Booth April 5, 2015 - 2:54 pm

Congratulations, your attitude is a real credit to you.

I hope my two children display such a responsible approach

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Kate@GoodnightDebt April 7, 2015 - 5:03 am

Thanks Tony.

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